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Communication glossary コミュニケーション用語集

The shared terms for every communication lesson. Use these words when diagnosing an exchange.

Six traits 六つの資質

Trait日本語MeansTest question
Clarity明確さWhat, who, and by when are unmistakable.Could they act without asking what I meant?
Openness開放性・オープンさShare information and reasoning with those affected; invite input.Did everyone affected hear it before it was final?
Honesty誠実さ・正直さSay what you believe, including unwelcome news.Does it match what I privately think?
Timeliness適時性・タイムリーさArrives while it can still change a decision.When did I know, and when did they hear?
Accuracy正確さMatches the facts, with evidence to back it.What is my evidence?
Listening傾聴力Understand the whole meaning—facts and feelings—before responding.Could I restate their point to their satisfaction?

Honesty vs accuracy follows Grice's maxim of Quality (SEP). Listening: Rogers & Farson, Zenger & Folkman.

Seven barriers 七つの壁

From Victor's company training. Short glosses are provisional until aligned with the training material.

日本語EnglishGloss (provisional)
期待・思い込み(パラダイム)Expectations, assumptions (paradigm)We hear what we expect to hear.
動機(目的・ゴール)Motive (purpose, goal)Each side filters the message through what it is trying to achieve.
感情(気分・フィーリング)Emotion (mood, feeling)Current mood colours how a message is sent and received.
先入観(関心事)Preconception (concerns)What we already care about decides what we notice.
専門用語(業界用語・専門的表現)Jargon (industry terms)Terms clear to the sender are opaque to the receiver.
偏見(過去の経験)Bias (past experience)Past experience with a person or topic shapes the reading.
個性・性格(行動、学習スタイル)Personality (behaviour, learning style)People differ in how they prefer to take in and give information.

Culture 文化の違い

Term日本語Means
Low-context低コンテクストMeaning is in the words; say it explicitly, repeat it in writing.
High-context高コンテクストMeaning relies on shared background and what is left unsaid.
Reading the air空気を読むSensing the unspoken mood and expectations of a group.
Consensual deciding合意型の意思決定Slow, broad agreement; the decision then stays fixed.
Top-down decidingトップダウン型One person decides quickly; the decision may change often.
Ringi稟議A proposal circulates for input and approval, level by level.

Positions on these scales are relative: what matters is where you sit compared with the other person. Source: Erin Meyer, “Navigating the Cultural Minefield” (HBR, 2014).

Meetings and conflict 会議と衝突

Meeting diamond: divergence, conflict, convergence.
Term日本語MeansMove
Divergence発散The discussion widens; views are added.Collect; judge later.
Conflict (groan zone)衝突(混沌)Views collide; repetition, interruption, defensiveness. Normal, not failure.Restate each side; ask what each needs.
Convergence収束The discussion narrows to a decision.Name the decision rule; say decision, owner, deadline.
Hidden conflict表に出ない衝突Disagreement moved to silence or hallway talk.Invite it into the room; check who can't live with it.
Task conflictタスク・コンフリクトDisagreement about the work. On average not harmful.Keep it here.
Relationship conflict関係コンフリクトFriction about people. Harms teams.Separate the people from the problem.
Position立場・主張What someone says they want.Ask “why?”
Interest利害・本当のニーズWhy they want it: the underlying need.Solve for this.
Gradients of agreement合意の度合いKaner's 8-point scale from whole-hearted endorsement through “I can live with it” to veto.Use instead of yes/no.
Consent check「これで行けない人は?」A convergence move that surfaces leftover objection before closing.If someone objects, return to 衝突.
Domination / compromise / integration支配・妥協・統合One wins / both give up something / a new option meets both needs.Aim for integration.

Kaner et al. (2014); 日本ファシリテーション協会; de Wit, Greer & Jehn (2012); Fisher & Ury, Getting to Yes; Follett (1925).