Lesson 2 · Communication

Diagnose a message with six traits 六つの資質でメッセージを診断する

When an exchange goes wrong, name the trait that broke. A named problem can be fixed; a vague “miscommunication” cannot. うまく伝わらなかったとき、「ミスコミュニケーション」で終わらせず、どの資質が欠けたのかを特定する。

8 minutesSix-question quizOne recall check

A message succeeds only when the other person understands it the way you meant it, in time to act on it. メッセージが成功するのは、相手が意図どおりに、行動に間に合うタイミングで理解したときだけ。

Five traits for sending, one for receiving 伝える側の五つ、受け取る側の一つ

Clarity 明確さ

The reader knows what you want, from whom, and by when—with no guessing.

Test: could they act without replying “What do you mean?”

Openness 開放性・オープンさ

You share information and reasoning with the people it affects, and you invite their input.

Test: did everyone affected hear it before it was final?

Honesty 誠実さ・正直さ

You say what you actually believe—including unwelcome news.

Test: does your message match what you privately think?

Timeliness 適時性・タイムリーさ

The information arrives while it can still change a decision.

Test: when did you know, and when did they hear?

Accuracy 正確さ

What you say matches the facts, and you have checked enough to back it up.

Test: what is your evidence?

Listening 傾聴力

You understand the other person's whole meaning—facts and feelings—before you respond.

Test: could you restate their point so they say “Yes, exactly”?

The pair people confuse: honesty and accuracy 混同しやすい二つ：誠実さと正確さ

The philosopher Paul Grice described one rule of cooperative conversation—the maxim of Quality—in two parts: do not say what you believe is false, and do not say what you lack adequate evidence for. The first part is honesty. The second is accuracy. You can be completely honest and still inaccurate: you believe the data migration worked, but you never checked.

誠実さ＝自分が信じていることを言う。正確さ＝それを裏づける根拠がある。本気で「完了した」と思っていても、確認していなければ正確ではない。

Listening is the one trait on the receiving side, and it is active. Rogers and Farson called it listening for “total meaning”—content and feeling together. Zenger and Folkman's study of 3,492 managers found the best-rated listeners were not silent; they asked questions that helped the speaker think, like a trampoline rather than a sponge.

Sources: Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Implicature” (Grice's maxims); Rogers & Farson, “Active Listening” (1957); Zenger & Folkman, “What Great Listeners Actually Do” (2016). Timeliness and openness are working definitions for this course.

Practice · Which trait broke?

Diagnose six HRIS exchanges 六つの場面を診断する

Pick the one trait that failed most. Feedback appears immediately.

You learned two weeks ago that the vendor's API would be late. You told the team the day before the launch review.

Timeliness. The news was true and clear, but it arrived after it could change the plan. Ask: when did I know, and when did they hear?

Your status report says “All 1,200 employee records migrated correctly.” You believe it, but you checked a sample of 50.

Accuracy. You said what you believed, so you were honest. You lacked evidence for “all.” Say what you checked: “50 of 50 sampled records are correct; full check pending.”

You message a colleague in General Affairs: “Could you look at the directory stuff when you get a chance?”

Clarity. Which part of the directory, what kind of “look,” and by when? Name the action, the object, and the deadline.

A payroll manager starts explaining a concern about access rights. You cut in with a fix. A week later you learn you solved the wrong problem.

Listening. You answered before understanding. A restatement—“So the worry is that…?”—would have surfaced the real concern.

Your manager asks, “Is the pilot on track?” You expect a delay but answer, “Yes, basically,” so as not to disappoint them.

Honesty. Your words did not match what you believed. Softening is fine; hiding the belief is not: “I'm worried we'll slip a week—here's why.”

The core team settled who can see salary fields in a private chat. Department heads found out from the release notes.

Openness. The people affected never saw the reasoning or had a chance to comment before the decision was final.

Recall · Don't scroll up

Name all six from memory 六つを思い出す

Effortful recall builds memory that lasts. Write the six traits and a one-line test for each, in English or Japanese.

The six traits

Clarity 明確さ — could they act without asking what I meant?
Openness 開放性 — did everyone affected hear it before it was final?
Honesty 誠実さ — does it match what I privately believe?
Timeliness 適時性 — when did I know, and when did they hear?
Accuracy 正確さ — what is my evidence?
Listening 傾聴力 — could I restate their point to their satisfaction?

Missed one? That's the one to watch this week.

Apply it this week 今週の実践

Pick one message that got a confused reply, a late reply, or no reply. Name the trait that broke.
Rewrite it to fix that one trait. Send the next one that way.
In one conversation, restate the other person's point before answering. Notice whether they correct you.

Primary reading: Zenger & Folkman, “What Great Listeners Actually Do” (4 pages, free). Read the six levels of listening and pick the level you most often skip.

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Communication glossary 用語集

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Barriers: why a clear message still lands wrong 伝わらない七つの壁

Questions are part of learning. Ask your teacher (Claude) about anything unclear, bring an exchange that went wrong to diagnose together, or share your recall answer for feedback.